I fly on warclouds when not on squad nights- I would recommend that you use their teamspeak as the guys there are usually very good They tend to have a better SA than me so help me a lot - They have a few spare rooms so you could use one of these in whisper mode for the squad while benifitting from the general info in the main rooms. good article here on setting this up
http://www.war-clouds.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=28
Id love to bee there but I think that our time differences will rule me out from joining up with you :crybaby:
If warclouds is busy try UKdedicated 2 - they are trying out full real settings and are a good bunch of guys- only thing is they only have one TS channel so both sides can hear each other- perhaps here using the DD channel would be better. They are pretty friendly on UKD2 - not as intense as Warclouds.
Let us know how it works out mate - I might try to set up something similar for UK members if enough are interested.