But we see this all the time.
Our kids aren't being taught to deal with failure or disappointment. We just don't let them fail. We let them whine their way out of everything. Kids go all the way through school and some CAN"T READ, most certainly can't write.
First time their girlfriend dumps them they kill someone.
We don't let them touch anything(oh no Johnny, too dangerous), never let them crash their bike, pile that ATV into a tree(hey man, that sh*t HURTS, maybe I'm not indestructible!!!) and then we're surprised they crash the car the first time they're on their own. Um yeah kid, no "replay" in real life.
Let them fall down while you're still around to help em get up, teach em to deal with failure (well bud, you gotta take the time to learn and get better), teach them to be responsible(sorry kid, if you don't finish what you have to do, I'm not letting you do what you want to do).
My 15 year old kid is more capable than a few of my grown adult neighbors. He was going to call a contractor to cut a branch no bigger than my wrist.
I told him to just cut it off and forget it. He doesn't own a saw. When I gave him my hand saw he almost cut his own thumb off.
And his father never taught him anything?
Moron.
Thus endeth Perf's "Dad's rant".