As discussed tonight, some of us are using an icon mod that cuts out all the arrows, distances and names and just leaves a small blue or red triangle.
Details and download of the mod can be found here
https://forum.il2sturmovik.com/topic/38978-mod-icons/
As you can see, this guys made a mod with a variety of options. I'm using the third one down and this is what it looks like in our coops. In my game goodies are blue and baddies are red